WTF is going on with him??...?

I met this guy at the club on Friday, and he seemed cool. I admit when I have liquor in my system, I get a bit friendly. Well that night I made out with him and then I ga e him my number. He didn't have his phone on him at the time but he remembered it by heart. The moment I got to my car, he called me and told me to save it. Anywho, he is well taken cared of financially, and he wanted me to come over for *** that night. Of course I refuse because, although I'm not in the right state of mind, I'm nor crazy. Anywho, after that day everyday he called me to see if I would meet up with him, grab something to eat, a movie, anything. It sorta scared me away but I agreed to grab something to ear with him on Monday. He seemed cool, nice, cute, an sweet. But one thing turned me off about him.. He went through my cell phone at the coffee shop where were at... I told him I didn't mind him looking at my pictures because it's jut pics of me and my friends and dogs.. Turns out he actually looked through my text messages, pictures, notes, the whole shabang! WTF?? Not only that but my friend called me and HE picked up MY phone. -__- I didn't mind at first but now that I think of it, it was rude and an invasion of MY privacy. I just met him 3 days ago, WTf is his deal? Well now he hasebt spoken to me since because he found text messages of me talking to other guys. VErY person ones... He also said that he though I was a player because I have my phone locked with a passcode... What is the deal here?? Anyone please help me figure this one out??